With all these PUA trying to sell their "methods"... mystery, cold approach, daygame, etc. Does it feel like none of these matter and just really comes down to this?
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I think social skills are the most important. I'm pretty hot and it makes it easy for me to start talking to girls, girls approach me far more often than I approach them. But the thing is, my social skills are crap. I get nervous sometimes and I don't express myself properly. They end up getting bored and no longer finding me attractive and move on. So honestly while looks can help, they're not everything, they only make it easier. I think being confident, funny and generally a fun guy to be around is going to be far better to pick up women. If she feels better after she's been with you than she did before, you're doing it right. Your looks alone aren't going to make her feel good.1