My bf and I have been together about 3 weeks. Though we've known each other for about 3 and a half months. We're happy together and he tells me he loves me all the time but randomly the other day he asked if I'd marry him. It was kinda jokingly and I didn't take it seriously but said I didn't know. So he dropped it but since then he's told me twice that he'd marry me. When I asked him why he said he could totally see us together and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. I love him but I honestly don't know how I feel yet. I don't know if I love him like that or if I think we really are a good match. We are different and have a lot of different views which could effect things later on. And I'm honestly not ready to start thinking about marriage yet-like I said we've only been together less then a month! And we're also both really young-(I'm 20 and he's 21) Most the guys I've met don't even think about marriage until a ways into the relationship. So why is he already so set on it? When I at least feel like I still barley know him? Am I too cautious and is it bad that I'm unsure? Is this weird for him to be so sure so soon?
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u re right , it s still too early, he's going throught the passion part of a relationship, which only based on emotions , but emotions come and go. but getting married is a decision not based only on emotions. so stay with him, and if u guys are marriage quality u should at least be able to stay together for a few years before thinking about it. what s a few years when we re talking about a lifelong commitement0