I've been getting this feeling that no matter what... men need to suffer a bit and not get anything easily or they don't value it.
What do u think?
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I'd say this is pretty dead on for me. Not for completely unavailable women, but for women i know are self confident enough to tell me to get lost if I'm not doing things right. I lose interest in women who give me too much credit too soon. It might sound crazy, but too many compliments are a turn off for me too. A girl should know she's good enough to not need any guys approval. This self confidence is what turns me on. Acting like you dont care whether a guy likes you or not, because you know you have good things to offer. Acting like this will make guys lose their shit trying to impress you. And it will screen out all the ones you don't need. Then, once they've earned it, you can give them your approval and they will cherish it that much more. Same thing works for women2