Like if she writes you a long letter saying she's upset you did X Y Z and how that made her feel.
Or even just sits there and tells you what you did that upset her and how upset she is and can't take it anymore etc.
I'm just asking cuz I notice men withdraw when faced with such scenarios. Why? (Women tend to solve problems this way yu see)
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Fine with me. I'm no mind reader. I'd hold her hand and she could tell me what the problem is or she can write me a letter / note. I want to please her as much as I can and will change if doable. If I can't change that easy I will still try to move 'some' her way if it is important to her. But...'can't take it anymore' is a turn off.
If I am losing my gal I feel crushed. If she is thinking that, then there is a big problem and she is borderline dumping me at her earliest convenience if I screw up again. A good relationship should not always being be bordering on 'can't take it anymore.' It should seldom get near that point at all. Good luck!0
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