For how long does the first date last. You go for a coffee and it's the first time you see him/her in person.
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It's as long as the busiest or least interested person is interested in being there (usually the woman in my case). I don't go to coffee shops because I've never had a good date or a phone call back from a date to a coffee shop. Coffee shops are just so loud and impersonal. The energy doesn't allow me to open up as much as I'd like to.
Now McDonald's. I've always had good dates there. We didn't have to get a meal we just had to have something to eat or drink while we have our conversation. It's a little more quiet, a little more personal and my dates there tend to last longer anyway.
Keep this in mind. All of dating is based on the person who is the least interested. They have all the power. Or rather. The person who is the most interested gives all the power to the other person. And if you hold that power. You can take as little or a much time as you like. You can also go as fast or as slow as you like when speaking of the speed of progress you have in your interactions with these people.0