Is it normal to always feel like you're someone's second choice?

I feel like a second choice, like I'm just at the right place at the right time. I know I'm a beautiful girl, I know I am interesting, I know I am worth happiness. I don't think im special... I just learned to love myself after a severely mentally abusive relationship. But still, I feel like I'm being settled for. I feel like guys are just filling a need, not just sexual but I mean emotional need. I'm just a need. They're lonely and I'm there.
Is this always the case? Help me with these thoughts. I am cynical.


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  • Everybody is someone's second choice. If he is good to you, leave it at that.


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