My ex and I have been talking again and we really get along. He's good to me (but because of past mistakes he makes I second guess a future with him) but other than that history I feel like he has pretty much what I love to have in a man. But during our break up I had met someone else and things went bad and although it's over and we aren't talking I can't stop thinking about him and I feel it's interfering with anyone else I talk to whether my ex or someone new because I can't stop thinking about that other guy. Does this happen to anyone else and how do you deal with it?
Why can't I get over another man?
What Guys Said 2
Its funny your story is pretty close to mine, left a serious relationship dated this girl for a few months I liked her a lot but needed space. i had jumped into it to soon and we were opposites so between my issues and all the work I had to put in I just did not have the energy. Anyway a few months later I realized that I had fallen for her way harder then I thought and regretted it. We tried to work things out but she never trusted me again. So yes it happens sometimes you dont realize something till after they have gone.0
Sometimes I think about the chicks who were with me and how hard it must be for them to get over me. It must be like throwing away a winning lottery ticket..0
What Girls Said 2
With an Ex that may still Mark an X in your soft spot and with you realizing he doesn't have Everything you needed or wanted, for alon gcame another who swept you off your feet and now you can't seem to shake Him Or the feeling of this fellow.
You finally started to lick some of your war wounds, enough o be able to be with someone whom you could relate to. You had this special chemistry with him that you felt was some magic and even when it didn't blast off the way you thought it would, you have realized you really can go out there and find someone who may be even just as good as the Ex and who you can see yourself in a future with.
The only thing I can tell you if you want to perhaps give him a call and talk things out. If not, thinking it is dead and gone, then stay light and semi sweet with your Ex and only allow friends with no benefits so you can Continue down another path of dating and mating and Not even allowing Him to---Interfere with That.
Good luck. xx1
you know what im in the same situation right now!!! every 1 thinks he's playing me n i normally get ova things pretty quick I've tried dating other guys but all i think about is adam i nearly called a guy i was dating adam that was awkward if u find out a way to get over ur guy let me know because I've been trying my hardest to get ova adam!0
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