I'm sort of an introvert and not extremely social, but I'm at the point where I want a relationship with someone. It's sort of hard to meet people, and I'm not sure I can become less shy, it feels natural to some extent. I was just wondering if anybody had any advice or recommendations for someone like me?
What is the best way to meet Women if you're shy?
What Girls Said 2
Try POF, it's a dating website0
What Guys Said 1
It likely feels natural to be shy because it is a habit. Like any other habit it can be adjusted. You have to work past some of your shyness to get out there and talk to girls.
Do this: For the next 6 weeks, every day - look at 5 women you think are attractive and just say "hello" to her (or "hey", whatever)..
For 6 weeks after that, same thing - find 5 women you don't know - but instead of just a greeting, follow up with a compliment.
Do these things with a feeling of outcome-independence. In other words, whether they smile back or give you an 'eat shit' look, nothing matters to your life. It doesn't mean you're a bad person or unliked.0
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