So I’ve been talking to this girl for a while now, and I feel like she is interested in me, but neither of us have confessed our feelings for each other yet since we’re both super-shy. But we text everyday, see each other every weekend, have gone out to the movies, and even met each other’s families, (which all seem like bf/gf things to me) so I’m curious when we become “official.”
This weekend when we hang out I’m planning on just flat out telling her how I feel, because at this point I feel like I’m just leading her on. I’ve never had an official gf before, so I’m not really sure how the whole “exclusive talk” works, so I have a few questions I hope you fine people could help me answer.
How do I bring it up the topic of us being exclusive?
Is flat out telling her I like her a bad idea?
What do I say/do if she says she likes me back?
If she does feel the same, where do we go from there? Do we keep doing what we’re already doing (talking everyday/hanging out every weekend) but just change Facebook statuses?
What do I do/say if she doesn’t feel the same way about me?
Is it possible for us to stay friends if she doesn’t like me back?
If there’s anything else I should know before I go through with this, please let me know!
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In the end, it's a 50/50 gamble and there's really nothing you can do to win the outcome in your favor either way.
But that's life, son. That's life.
What has happened to me in the past has been one of two things:
1) I have accidentally called a girl my girlfriend (on the phone) after thinking it for quite some time and she has gleefully agreed
2) I'll be making plans to hang out with exclusive girl and something else will come up which I will cancel. When the girl asks why, I'll say "because I told them I'm hanging out with my girlfriend right now."
Neither have ever ended horribly, and I'm guessing it's because both these girls WANTED to be exclusive to begin with. Can't really do much about a girl who doesn't.
Simple as ramen, my friend. Life = complicated + simple / burgers + wine + RC Cola