And get used to being intimate with women that way?
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Honestly, I think it as an excellent idea. For a few reasons, and I think you might agree. One of the main reasons I think it is a good idea, is because I get the sense you are feeling a little "stuck" in the area of having these types of interactions with women. And the best way to get "unstuck" is to start doing something, anything. Any action is better than doing nothing.
And I am assuming because of what you said here, that talking to women at clubs/bars may be the easiest and/or most willing thing since that is what popped into your head. In which case you should absolutely do it.
I think the people who disagree here are over-looking the bigger picture that you are trying to achieve here. Which essentially is working on your confidence when initially interacting with women and using that as a building block to lead to to bigger/better things for you.
If you want to test the waters and would feel more comfortable going out and grabbing some stranger at a bar to do so, then by all means you should do it..
Maybe ask yourself while weighing this decision - What do I have to lose by doing this? If the answer is really nothing, then why not go for it?
It sounds like something that will challenge you but not overwhelm you and that you could only benefit from it to me. I could be wrong, but that's just my opinion. Hope it helps and let me know how it works out for you.0