i have a boyfriend and I was at a giants game with my best guy friend and his friends and we all got drunk and one of his friends leaned in and kissed me I didn't kiss him back but I finally wrote my boyfriend about it after almost a month some friends say don't tell him because its just gonna cause a pointless fight but I feel like honesty is always the best policy. what would you think if your significant other told you some thing like this that had happened?
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id be upset about it yes. but then again it was outta your control. if you were leading him on to kiss you or something that's one thing. but if he just kissed you outta nowhere then id go have a talk with that friend and be like wtf but I wouldn't be mad at you.
but one thing I would be upset about is you taking a month to tell me. the waiting a month would hurt me to a point and make me feel like your hiding other stuff or afraid that you can't talk to me. honesty is the best policy but also remember time has a big factor in it too. its better to tell right after it happened then wait a month.0