I `m an attractive girl but i think i`m doing something wrong because whenever i show a guy some interests to guys, they become such an ******* to me , they distance themselves from me to test how much i `m gonna put effort to have them , in most cases i just give up after several attempts , then they come forward being nice but then i`m not interested anymore after all when a guy is so mean at the beginning u don`t expect better later , i know it sounds weird but it happened to me like 100 times , any idea?
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Your age may have something to do with it. Once a girl is in her thirties, most guys assume you are trying to find just anyone to settle down with since your looks are fading and options are dwindling.
Since you're single at that age, they assume you're single because you've been partying for years, so you've probably been with a bunch of men and they aren't sure if you are capable of loyalty, or if you weren't a party-goer, they assume it's just because you aren't desirable and they're trying to find out what other men thought was wrong with you.0