Why would she go out with me in the first place if im not attractive
This girl I went on a date with that I took out to dinner called me unattractive. Why would she do that?
What Girls Said 9
Someone who calls someone else just Anything than "Please, pass the bread," is rude and crude, has no table manners and is Not worth holding the car door for nor spending hard earned money on.
I wasn't there so being I was not this fly on the bar wall, many things over chat and chew were probably discreetly discussed. However, to come right out and say such a thing, I would have taken her home before the dessert tray came around.
Don't give up. There are girls out there who are dime a dozen like this little filly but others who when you find the right one or ones to take out, are not horsing around... this horse's hobby is getting freebies from unsuspecting nice guys.
Good luck. xx0
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holy crap what a bitch
she's either trying to get over someone, or ur rich and she thought she'd take advantage of that.
ofcourse, this doesn't justify her rudeness. I'm sorry u had to go through that.1
Why indeed. Did she actually say "unattractive"? Wow.
If she went out with you on a regular date and knew beforehand it was a date, one can only conclude she said that on purpose, to hurt you. Either way, she's really rude.
Don't get disheartened for I'm sure you're to meet some goodhearted ladies as well. Perhaps you just have to look more carefully, but in this world you're bond to hear surreal things, stuff you didn't even ask for.0
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Some people are just superficial gold digger bitches... Brush it off... it's not wroth your time to dwell on it!! I'm sorry!!! Chin up buttercup0
I found it rude. She should say thank you. If she didn't want to have next date then it's her problem but she should have said thank you and explain in nicer way than saying "unattractive"0
What Guys Said 10
OK - this isn't as much about you as you worry, dude.
> Opposites attract, even in looks
> Some gals may critique your looks BUT have higher priorities on their shopping list... like this one... therefore more dates will allow her to dig deeper into WHAT you DO have to offer and compare these to her list... if she has one... some just "wing it" and make a list on each candidate then post these to bedroom wall to ponder best choice.
> Many gals will only enter a long term relationship IF she's in Charge, so establishes how much negative "training"/abuse a candidate will take from the get-go... like this one. The explanations can be varied, from poor experiences following losers (or vicariously watching mom do this) to culture in old country dictates the gals get no education but look how stupid their guys are that DO
You can now choose to continue to be interviewed harshly by this/other gals as a candidate for their bedroom or longer term... if they seem worth it, if there seems to be a payoff
only date/shop those gals that treat you great... at the onset and hope they aren't trap doors to doom later
No gal is perfect, but then we aren't either.
Since you are reacting to such treatment - enough so to write GAG, enough to "quit gals"
I suggest only that this one is not a match & not worth for time/coffee down the drain.. unless you seek her friendship in order to meet her opposite? personality friends and trade up. After all, switching to guys or go w/o dating is not an option I would ever offer up.
Ever seen a perfectly beautiful gal with a guy who's face looks like it was a punching bag? I have but won't post them, as they are friends...0
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It sounds as if she put you in the friend zone. Or, and simply wanted to be brutally honest with you so that you could decide to proceed with her, or not, in utter awareness of her view of you.0
She probably liked the fact you were both kingsfans and lakers fans.
In any case, she doesn't matter so forget about her.0
Because she's a bitch. Even if you don't like the person, you don't come out and say it!*
*unless you're a bitch0
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