I'm 16 and i'm dating a guy who is 25, he is my friend and i feel like he completes me. To me he doesn't seem 25 he acts more like an 18 yr old. I can speak to him like he is the same age as me, of course we have joked about the fact that he will be old before me, but we dont acknowledge the age difference between us when we are together.
But im not sure if it is right to be dating him, since he is way older than me. The legal age to have sex here is 15 so i meam im just a bit confused.
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Your parents may not approve. So even though the whole "legal 15" thing is going on where you live you still are under your parents who can forbid you from seeing him and they can report him for taking you somewhere and stuff like that (I'm talking from experience in the US and would imagine Sweden being similar here). I don't think this is likely to go that far but I can imagine your parents taking issue to this. Dads are especially protective and will see his age and assume he "wants to take advantage of you."
Now assuming these types of problems don't occur and you're dating with no problems your roadblock will likely occur when you're in college. You'll likely be forced to break up if you go to a far off school or you'll be stuck limiting any choices in careers and whatnot to stay with him.0