I see all these sites for woman like how to get a man how to get a guy to notice you or how to learn if a guys a player or not. These are in books magazine and internet articles. Buy there never any advice for guys.
so I want to ask guy what your advice to other guys on how to. Pick up girls. Or date them. Give like three examples or a short step by step.
lady's you can chime in too but I don't really want your advice cause females are too nice I want a honest answer but don't let what I said or think discourage u prove me wrong and give some good advice.
P. S sorry if that's rude didn't mean it that way
Most Helpful Guy
Don't listen to girls. Be respectful and thoughtful? That's not gonna get you laid, that's what "nice guys" have been complaining about all this time.
There are certain things you have to have before anything:
- eye contact
- be able to give compliments
- be able to tease a girl
- be able to hold a conversation
- be confident enough to ask for her phone number/hit on her/go for what you want
- be able to lead
- speak with confidence
- get physical
- be able to have fun, because you're gonna get rejected a lot, might as well have fun doing it.
For example, when I see a girl that I want to hit on, I go direct. I am confident about it, I look her in the eye as I give her a compliment, I introduce myself, I shake her hand, I don't immediately let go unless she pulls her hand away. I talk to her for a few minutes. I know she needs to get to know me and feel like I'm a cool person. I have to be persistent and persuasive sometimes. She might be in a hurry, so I try to convince her to talk to me for 3 minutes. Which might be enough. I talk to her, I might tease her. For example I might say her job is boring. I try to find girls that I like and I know there aren't that many out there, so I don't care to make it work with every girl. After talking to her, if I like her, I point out something in her personality, or I would just say I think you're cool. We should exchange phone numbers and I'll send you a text later. I give her a hug good bye.
Disclaimer: Reading this wouldn't help you at all unless you go out and do it, because that's how learning works, by doing, not reading.0