So I'm dating this guy and have had sex with him twice. He's below average in terms of, um, size. It's small. But I don't care because I like his looks (nice face and good built) and his personality - outgoing, confident, and acts like a gentleman. Only known him for a month, but he seems pretty decent. I want to keep going out with him, sleeping with him, and getting to know him better. Thing is, the 2 times we've had sex, he acted pretty awkward afterwards. I don't know if it's caused by insecurity about his size or something else. I can't really ask.
My point is, guys, if a woman is spending time with you and sleeping with you, you KNOW she's interested, right? Even if you have insecurities about your size? I mean, I definitely will not keep having sex with him if I'm not sexually turned on by him. He should know this, right?
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Yeah, he knows you're interested. There's no confusion about that.
I don't know if this guy's really that insecure about his size. If he's got a confident personality, very friendly with people, and you never get a feeling of insecurity from him other than sex, then I don't know if he really cares that much. I mean, is it just a little below average, or Really small? If it's around average, I doubt he's really affected by it.
He knows you're sexually attracted to him if you two are having sex. Any real guy/mature guy knows that women don't just sleep around with any random guys. They have to have some level of personal relationship with them and a physical attraction as well. I'm sure he knows this.0