till recently she was pregnant from me, she had a misscarriage at 5 / 6 weeks. A long time she wasn't sure if she wanted the child, but i did think she wanted it. Now she does want a child! i saw her cry together with her 7 yo daughter the day before yesterday, they were watching a video with baby pictures in it. yesterday her little daughter was a bit harsh on me, she blamed me that the child was dad, and was angry with me. it did hurt but she is just a little child, she doesn't really understand. So yesterday i ve talked to the girl im in love with, and told her that i do really want a child with her. We aren't exactly in a relationship , and i want to ask her to be my girlfriend, but im scared of asking it, because i dont want to scare her off. We have small communication problems, she is polish, and speaks a little bit of german, we talked about the child and agreed it will have to learn more than 1 language. but i did notice she is afraid of being abondant, since she already is a single mom. I love her, and i m thinking about asking her to become my girlfriend.
Should I ask her to become my girlfriend, im scared of doing so, read details?
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So you want to make a baby with this person but you're afraid to ask her if she'll be your girlfriend? I think your priorities are out of whack. Try being in a committed relationship FIRST before knocking her up.0
You need a relationship FIRST lovie.0
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