You ever date or try to date someone who is so quiet that they aren't talking unless you are?
Without being judgmental towards these people, I really hate being in these situations. For example, there's a girl off pof I'm talking to right now who added me to her favorites and she agreed to a date but cannot carry a conversation to save her life. Only thing she's ever said to initiate conversation was hi or hey. Even when I ask her questions, she gives generic one word answers and is still quiet until I start talking.
I've been in these situations before but I feel like it puts pressure on me to constantly ask questions otherwise it'll be quiet. I feel like I'm trying too hard and the conversation feels forced.
How do you handle this? Should I ask why they don't speak much without offending them?
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Yeah I've been there, and it usually means that you have nothing in common, or they're only into you for superficial reasons. Where there's true chemistry, when you make a real connection, the conversation will feel natural, and flow with little effort. I always find it best to connect over a common interest.0