I volunteer at a school and I have my eye on the PE teacher. he's single so that's good. The first time we talked he seemed as if he was flirting with me, but than again that may just be his personality. and the second time we got to actually talk he was the one initiating the conversation and it seemed like he wanted to talk more but didn't know what to say. he's 26ish im 19. first do you think the age gap would be a problem for him? and whenever I get to see him he is with a class so I don't want to say anything in front of the kids and I can't be there before or after school. I have been told to just leave him a simple note in his office mailbox and just say something simple about how im interested and my number. Are there any better ideas? there is no way for me to tell him person to person. Also do you guys think that this would be a long shot? or do you think its In my reach. even with as little as you know. thank you!
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I don't think the age gap will matter since most guys go for younger girls. I'm not sure if you're volunteering while he's teaching and in the room or if you just see him occasionally. I would see if he looks at you while you're there and look back and smile. Guys aren't very observant to when a girl is interested they look for signals to get courage to ask her out. I'm sure the kids in class do supervised activities where he's not necessarily teaching at the time (kids playing games etc) and say hi maybe ask him how his weekend was etc. you could leave a note but if he's not interested it could make it awkward. Next time you talk to him try to hint that you don't have a boyfriend (mention doing things alone he will get the hint) but if I knew what you did as a volunteer I could prob be more help1