A cute guy at work asked me out . He's nice, mature, and pretty cute so I said sure . He gave me his number and told me to call him later that week but when I did he said something had happened and he's really sorry but we couldn't go out .
He finally told me later that he really liked me and that when he asked me out his girlfriend had broken up w/him but later she wanted to get back together and he still hadn't (and hasn't ) made up his mind about what to do .
Again he said he really likes me and said "I'll keep you posted and maybe this will work out after all . "
So what I want to know is, if he does ask me out again should I say Yes ?
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I would call him up, and tell him that you've changed your mind, and that you're not interested in a relationship right now . I will never date anyone that just gets out of a relationship . But the fact that he's deciding about taking back his ex ? Do you know what that makes you ? PLAN B ! You are a back up plan . Is that really all you see yourself as ? Let him know that you appreciate it, but you've changed your mind . Chances are, he will try and convince you to give him a chance, and you probably will, because that's how girls are . But when you look in the mirror, wouldn't you rather see yourself as something better then a backup plan ?1
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