I'm a white girl who's been dating an Asian guy for a little over 10 months. I'm really happy with him and am not in the slightest bothered by racial differences, but my friends and classmates seem shocked when they find out that my boyfriend is Asian. Likewise when we're out shopping or at a restaurant, I can't help but notice that we seem to attract quite a few stares. Am I over-thinking things, or is that mostly negative?
On the flip-side, whenever one of my white guy friends was with an Asian girl, or I see a white guy/Asian girl couple, they don't seem to be treated at all out of place?
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I'm an Asian guy, I get what you mean. I get these looks dating girls and even hanging with girls outside my race. From my own experience, Asian people like ever other races usually date and befriend people of their race.
The look is from disprove to being amazed, surprised I do date outside my race. Don't mind them, finding someone your happy with is something very special.0