Okay so i was telling my gf that I have been in past relationships where I have hung out with the girl every single day and every single night and those relationships only last 2-3 months tops if that. I also told her that I wanted us to last a really long time and I have no problem with seeing her a lot I just want to do it in moderation because I do not want to loose her she is very special to me. Now when I told her that she got really mad saying that I am pushing her away and all this other stuff which isn't true. I just want to us to do things in moderation so we will last a long time. Am I wrong for saying what I said. oh yea she is 18 and i am 24
This girl has not had a relationship last more then 10 months she told me, and I worried if I see her every single day and night that we will fall to the same fate (I did not tell her what that line just said)
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You were this Honest John, Sgtkeebler, in telling her straight out that you didn't want to see her every waking minute of every day and that you thought it best, unlike the rest, To-----Do it in moderation. It makes good sense, you are right in in your thinking, however, you may have gone a bit overboard with being totally Up front and personal by giving her poop deck details because now you have to pay the piper.
I am sure it never crossed your mind that you were Crossing any boundaries in sounding out the past with her and the outcome of too much spent in your other relationships. And now that you have found out something about her that you most likely didn't know before, her being super thin skinned and a bit childish in not playing the same tune as you, as time goes on, and you go slow with your flow as you try and nurse and nurture this relationship, you may even find out more in store that you Never-----Knew before... maybe you have even come across an idea as to why her other relationships didn't even make a year, dear.
Silence is golden the next time something marches up behind you that may throw an anchor in your path and cause your relationships, now and in the future, to go dead in the water... not everyone has a song on their lips about certain things and sometimes never let you live it down... this one maybe a perfect example of one of them.
Good luck. xx1