So I've been seeing this woman for about 2 months. Everything was going well until about the last two weeks. She has been pushing me away and some female friends I've shared the details with say it's definitely because she's scared it might not work out.
Have you ladies ever pushed away a guy you really like and cared about? What happened? Did you regret it? Did you try to reach out to him after he finally let you push him away? How long before you did?
Is there any chance things can still work out? I really care about her and I'm willing give her one more chance, but obviously I can't let her contiue these games. What can I say to reassure her? Has a guy ever managed to say something that helped you get over your fear or was it something you had to work through on your own?
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it can go in so many ways,
like first... since its been like this for 2 weeks, may be there's a reason why she's distant, may be there's a misunderstanding, may be u did something or she realized something about u, she heard a rumor about u, or she simply doesn't trust u or can't be herself with u, may be u hurt her in some way without realizing like insulted her, it happens like sometimes u dont know a person very well and after dating for some time u see that you dont like how theyre treating u and such, im not accusing u or anything im just saying, some girls have trust issues cause we date jerks in the past and were not getting security from u, may be she realized how different u are or ure not who she expected... the best thing to do is to talk to her ask her how she is feeling about the relationship and if she's happy with u and what u can do to make her happy cause u like her a lot and are committed to her, some girls just need to hear it from the guy that he wants her.
another possibility is she doesn't see herself marrying u, may be she had someone else in mind or you're both too different, it can be religion, ethnicity, having kids together etc... for example i liked this guy once a lot and i loved to date him i was so attracted to him it was a fling but for some reason i could never imagine marrying him, he wasn't serious in my eyes and we were way tooooo different... like different ethnicity and religion, he wasn't the brightest guy, had strange hobbies and interests it was a turn off for me, and i didn't like the town he was living in, i couldnt imagine him as a father, he was immature, so in a girls mind, im thinking whoa i would never marry this dude and move in with him in that town, so whats the point of dating any longer?
but personally, if i truly liked a guy, and i have been crazy and mad for a man before, i would never push him away i would keep trying and fighting to be with him and keep him. thats just me personally.0