Don't be so melodramatic. There are tons of guys who like a slim and athletic build, plenty who like small boobs. Are you really considering having surgery to get a date? You actually want to attract someone who cares more about the fat stored on your chest than you as a person? If that's what you want them go mutilate your body to get a man, have fun with that I'm sure it will all come up roses for you.
You're probably just having bad luck. Much like women in general don't need a perfect-sized penis, men in general don't care as much about breast size as various media insinuate.
Most people have trouble getting dates. Don't let those guys discourage you; they're a drop of water in the whole ocean of men.
I'm AA and lots and lots of guys hit on me. Yeah, I obsessed about my no boobs like crazy, especially when I was like 14 or so. I'm 19 now, still no boobs, but everything else is in tip top working order. Nice butt, super smile, open and accessible. Guys like me! :) My boobs will never be big, I could care less. My mom's the same way, small boobs, no cleavage, but a known hottie @ 41. XD I like my bod now more than ever.
I think it's perfectly natural for curves to be appealing to a guy, but that doesn't mean that it is the only factor that appeals to boys. A pretty face, slim body, and a great sense of humour will never go amiss. Just be who you want to be, and eventually your Prince Charming will show up. Trust me x
Different people have different tastes. Some men like smaller boobs, some like bigger boobs and (I think the vast majority) just like boobs in general. lol. Just be who you are and have confidence in yourself. That is the most attractive thing of all. :)
I have 2 old friends with AAcups and I've never heard of a guy rejecting them for it. They would sometimes get made fun of in high school, but it never prevented them from getting into sexual relationships. One of them is even married now. No, obviously you shouldn't "Just give up".
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How long did it take them for a man to finally give up and just date them? I'm 24 and single.
What? It didn't take them long at all. They've had boyfriends since they were at least 13 and had many more throughout high school. We're all 21 now and one is married with a kid and the other one has a boyfriend.
Haha no you should not give up and I would advise against implants! Most guys who aren't shallow will appreciate that you're natural- especially if you have other awesome qualities they'd gladly take over some curves on the front! Which I'm sure you do
Don't give up, it sounds like you're approaching the wrong people. I've always had a thing for small breasted women, they seem to have a more honest sense of themselves-- a lot of large breasted women think all they have to do is turn their boobs loose and they don't have to do much else. I like women who really want to throw down, lol.
implants are really expensive and kind of gross if you think about it there are lots of guys who ONLY like small boobs... like my boyfriend. except since I started birth control my boobs are now a B and I'm kinda pissed I actually liked them smaller :(
Um no. I'm flat but still get dates. Some jerks will compliment me because my curves are basically thanks to my ass. However there are guys who like skinny girls. You don't need implants to be hot. I'm a size one-two around my waist and wear an a-cup bra size. Just because the kar-trashians are somewhat popular right now doesn't mean you need to be overweight.
you say you weigh 100 lbs try gaining 20lbs that will put you up to at leasts an A cup. and if that doesn't work then maybe think about implants, I have small tits but i always here guys hate them and my fathers childhood friend died from infection after getting them, pretty scary.
No, do not become artificial. One you have to LOVE YOURSELF before you can date anyone , two, you dont find a guy to date, he finds you, three if he's only going off of your phyisical , he isn't for you. Just wait it out massage your boobs and stop eating Mickey D's. Know your worth before you date. Best of luck
Honey No! Don't lie to yourself, do you really thj k men worry about how skinny you are, your breast size, hair color, etc? No they shouldn't and obviously for you to think you should change yourself to have guys attract you sounds so silly! Obviously those men who have forgotten about you are jackasses, they shouldint judge you on what your heavenly father gave to you. You should be proud of what you have. Think, some people dont have hair, some have growth problems, some don't have breast at all, and some have syndromes that jesus gave them, FOR A REASON. But they still all found love, when the right person comes along you will know they didn't care about your looKs. They cafe about your heart.
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I, as many other men, prefer small breast... I myself like anything from AA, A, or B cups. My girl is a small B, but has amazing nipples.
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Why can't i find men like you? All the boys my age want gigantic breasts
I promise we're out here.. keep looking darlin. I will say I dated a girl once that had implants and was a D cup. I couldn't stand her breast... they were way to large, to round and looked fake. I grew to hate it when she took her shirt and bra off. So I wouldn't say implants are the answer... I think the idea of having a man who wants a woman with small breasts is the way to go... don't change yourself to attract someone... be you and love you... men like myself are out here looking for a woman with small breast.
Hi there, No never give up your fine just the way you are :) This is where I could shine cause I really don't care about breast size what so ever i'm not like most guts but unfortunately i'm not like the average person socially I really don't get out much. It's probably your metabolism or body type as either an endomorph, ectomorph or mesomorph. I know a girl who got implants that's always an option if it really bothers you hers costed $8000.
@LonelyLillie13 They look good and feel good. She said its kind of weird though cause they feel colder than the rest of her body it was her 3rd week after surgery not sure if that goes away or not. Sure doesn't matter to me, if they are happy i'll be happy with them :)
If you want you can get breast implants but a guy should like you for who you really are inside not based on your boobs. SMH.
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It hasn't happened. Im 24 and single. Boys I ask usually reject or friendzone me. I dont ask out jock or alpha guys. I go for chubby, shy, or quiet types. They all reject me. Now everyone says im a desperate slut but i have never had sex.
OMG how messed up! It's okay I'm still a virgin too, never had a bf either. Don't feel bad, sometimes it's best that these jerks didn't end up with you. So rude of them, girl just wait for a guy to come to you and do you. Don't waste your time trying to impress anyone. If you want to do anything do it for YOU not for someone else :)
hey don't have implants , natural is so much more a turn on, I see some women with bigger tits and yeh I think wow , then I se some women with much smaller pert tits and think wow , and in my experience women with smaller tits usuaully have much nicer sensitive nipples and lets face it that's the part that counts , be yourself , enjoy who you are babe
No, "curves" aren't my thing. I think I'd prefer you over a curvy girl. I like small boobs. Small boobs are nice and polite like "hi there, can i help you with something?" whereas big boobs are all "HERE I AM! RAWR!"
So there, some guys prefer small, because science and reasons.
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Don't be so melodramatic. There are tons of guys who like a slim and athletic build, plenty who like small boobs. Are you really considering having surgery to get a date? You actually want to attract someone who cares more about the fat stored on your chest than you as a person? If that's what you want them go mutilate your body to get a man, have fun with that I'm sure it will all come up roses for you.
YoU should not be so obsessed about your boob size, I like big boobs, but I like small boobs, too.
AA are fine by me.
You're probably just having bad luck. Much like women in general don't need a perfect-sized penis, men in general don't care as much about breast size as various media insinuate.
Most people have trouble getting dates. Don't let those guys discourage you; they're a drop of water in the whole ocean of men.
Not everyone prefers the bigger boobed babe.
all about preference :3
just be happy with who you are ^^
No one prefers my vwry slim body. All my life people have made fun of me for not having curves
I'm AA and lots and lots of guys hit on me.
Yeah, I obsessed about my no boobs like crazy, especially when I was like 14 or so.
I'm 19 now, still no boobs, but everything else is in tip top working order.
Nice butt, super smile, open and accessible.
Guys like me! :)
My boobs will never be big, I could care less.
My mom's the same way, small boobs, no cleavage, but a known hottie @ 41. XD
I like my bod now more than ever.
And she is a karate kid.
Karate is great exercise.
Kick boxing is even better, but I like Karate. Less complicated.
Also a great place to meet guys.
:)
I think it's perfectly natural for curves to be appealing to a guy, but that doesn't mean that it is the only factor that appeals to boys. A pretty face, slim body, and a great sense of humour will never go amiss. Just be who you want to be, and eventually your Prince Charming will show up. Trust me x
Different people have different tastes. Some men like smaller boobs, some like bigger boobs and (I think the vast majority) just like boobs in general. lol. Just be who you are and have confidence in yourself. That is the most attractive thing of all. :)
I have 2 old friends with AAcups and I've never heard of a guy rejecting them for it.
They would sometimes get made fun of in high school, but it never prevented them from getting into sexual relationships.
One of them is even married now.
No, obviously you shouldn't "Just give up".
How long did it take them for a man to finally give up and just date them? I'm 24 and single.
What?
It didn't take them long at all. They've had boyfriends since they were at least 13 and had many more throughout high school.
We're all 21 now and one is married with a kid and the other one has a boyfriend.
Haha no you should not give up and I would advise against implants! Most guys who aren't shallow will appreciate that you're natural- especially if you have other awesome qualities they'd gladly take over some curves on the front! Which I'm sure you do
Don't give up, it sounds like you're approaching the wrong people. I've always had a thing for small breasted women, they seem to have a more honest sense of themselves-- a lot of large breasted women think all they have to do is turn their boobs loose and they don't have to do much else. I like women who really want to throw down, lol.
implants are really expensive and kind of gross if you think about it there are lots of guys who ONLY like small boobs... like my boyfriend. except since I started birth control my boobs are now a B and I'm kinda pissed I actually liked them smaller :(
Um no. I'm flat but still get dates. Some jerks will compliment me because my curves are basically thanks to my ass. However there are guys who like skinny girls. You don't need implants to be hot. I'm a size one-two around my waist and wear an a-cup bra size. Just because the kar-trashians are somewhat popular right now doesn't mean you need to be overweight.
you say you weigh 100 lbs try gaining 20lbs that will put you up to at leasts an A cup. and if that doesn't work then maybe think about implants, I have small tits but i always here guys hate them and my fathers childhood friend died from infection after getting them, pretty scary.
No, do not become artificial. One you have to LOVE YOURSELF before you can date anyone , two, you dont find a guy to date, he finds you, three if he's only going off of your phyisical , he isn't for you. Just wait it out massage your boobs and stop eating Mickey D's. Know your worth before you date. Best of luck
Honey No! Don't lie to yourself, do you really thj k men worry about how skinny you are, your breast size, hair color, etc? No they shouldn't and obviously for you to think you should change yourself to have guys attract you sounds so silly! Obviously those men who have forgotten about you are jackasses, they shouldint judge you on what your heavenly father gave to you. You should be proud of what you have. Think, some people dont have hair, some have growth problems, some don't have breast at all, and some have syndromes that jesus gave them, FOR A REASON. But they still all found love, when the right person comes along you will know they didn't care about your looKs. They cafe about your heart.
I, as many other men, prefer small breast... I myself like anything from AA, A, or B cups. My girl is a small B, but has amazing nipples.
Why can't i find men like you? All the boys my age want gigantic breasts
I promise we're out here.. keep looking darlin. I will say I dated a girl once that had implants and was a D cup. I couldn't stand her breast... they were way to large, to round and looked fake. I grew to hate it when she took her shirt and bra off. So I wouldn't say implants are the answer... I think the idea of having a man who wants a woman with small breasts is the way to go... don't change yourself to attract someone... be you and love you... men like myself are out here looking for a woman with small breast.
Hi there, No never give up your fine just the way you are :) This is where I could shine cause I really don't care about breast size what so ever i'm not like most guts but unfortunately i'm not like the average person socially I really don't get out much. It's probably your metabolism or body type as either an endomorph, ectomorph or mesomorph. I know a girl who got implants that's always an option if it really bothers you hers costed $8000.
how do they look on her? would you marry a girl with implants?
@LonelyLillie13 They look good and feel good. She said its kind of weird though cause they feel colder than the rest of her body it was her 3rd week after surgery not sure if that goes away or not. Sure doesn't matter to me, if they are happy i'll be happy with them :)
If you want you can get breast implants but a guy should like you for who you really are inside not based on your boobs. SMH.
It hasn't happened. Im 24 and single. Boys I ask usually reject or friendzone me. I dont ask out jock or alpha guys. I go for chubby, shy, or quiet types. They all reject me. Now everyone says im a desperate slut but i have never had sex.
OMG how messed up! It's okay I'm still a virgin too, never had a bf either. Don't feel bad, sometimes it's best that these jerks didn't end up with you. So rude of them, girl just wait for a guy to come to you and do you. Don't waste your time trying to impress anyone. If you want to do anything do it for YOU not for someone else :)
But do guys ask you out? Guys never ask me. I ask them and Im still single
Nope they haven't, they always seem to dip and turn around like... okay wtf? Maybe you're asking the wrong guys.
hey don't have implants , natural is so much more a turn on, I see some women with bigger tits and yeh I think wow , then I se some women with much smaller pert tits and think wow , and in my experience women with smaller tits usuaully have much nicer sensitive nipples and lets face it that's the part that counts , be yourself , enjoy who you are babe
No, "curves" aren't my thing. I think I'd prefer you over a curvy girl. I like small boobs. Small boobs are nice and polite like "hi there, can i help you with something?" whereas big boobs are all "HERE I AM! RAWR!"
So there, some guys prefer small, because science and reasons.