Ok so I am a 27 year old mechanical engineer. I won't say what it is exactly I do or how much money I make, but it is obvious that I make a lot of money because of the way I dress and talk. I also drive a Porsche 911 GT3 (150k car). What can I do to avoid gold diggers? I do not mean to offend any ladies here. I am really seeking advice. The last girl I was really starting to like was with me for my money. It is really making me feel sad and hopeless in finding my soul mate. :/
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I think you just have to be with a girl for a while to judge. I'm with a guy who is also 27. I met him around 24. He doesn't drive a porsche, but he owns houses. At first, I'm intrigued that he has his own career and a house. Its a plus, but it's not the money I cared about. His personality is the most important. Having a place and a career means he's set and responsible. I was with someone for 6 years and he never thought about marriage because he didn't have money and didn't have a stable job. He ended up cheating on me because the other girl had money to go out, so I wasted 6 years of my life. I didn't understand why because I'm understanding.
My current bf thought I was a gold digger until he found out my personality. He dated many girls who's out for his money. I guess it's because he's self conscious about his looks and they're just after his money. Not true, my bf is extremely good looking to me =). He doesn't spoil me and I love that about him. I think a girl gets spoil because of their bf and family. Just make sure to stay real and conserve money. Make them learn that a dollar is hard to make and it's true. Don't be too romantic.0