I am 23 & have been single for over two years & yes I obviously know why that is. Because I am VERY picky! I pick at a guy's looks, education, what he does, what his parents do, what type of family he comes from, where he likes to hang out, how he speaks (really I do), if I dont like the way a guy talks, I pass. I am like constantly eliminating guys cause I am constantly picking at everything that I believe is wrong with them! Now I sometimes think to myself and ask "well who am I to be judging them?" but then right away I have an answer, & I think " Well I guess if I were to be their potential partner, I should have a lot of say", but I mean again, I eliminate everyone before it even gets to the point of stable dating. Its really the first encounter that does it for me. I really can't go into why & how I got to this place its a combination of many things, my past relationships, extreme pressure from my family in finding someone "perfect", & just personal preferences too. I dont wanna be like this anymore because I know that I am pushing away guys & I could end up being alone for a long time but I can't HELP IT!!! just when I think I like someone, I'm like "oooh wait no u studied Music Theory..." or "Oh I can't be with a guy who drives a shittier car than me" or "Nope it's not going to work, u spend all ur weekends at music festivals" just on & on & on about things that I think are deal-breakers and I have reasons for all of them and I think are legitimate, for example: the whole 'the way a guy talks thing' I always think of the nightmares of having to introduce him to my family & even worse having to put with someone who says things like "ooh kill em" you know? or the car thing honestly I have nothing against a 'shitty' car but I've dated guys who didn't drive a car as nice as mine and honestly they're the ones who get insecure and take it out on me in other ways... I know my reasons make sense to me but they obviously have not helped me since I am single & alone.
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