How and when to ask a girl out you met online?

I'm totally new and failing at this. If you get any kind of response, do you ask her out or is it a week by week thing? I assume it's different for lots of people.

  • Right away
    Vote A
  • About a day after first message
    Vote B
  • About a week after
    Vote C
  • A month or more
    Vote D
  • Don't bother
    Vote E
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Most Helpful Girl

  • I actually met my current boyfriend online :P He messaged me and we were talking all day/night for a good week. 5 days later we decided to meet. 3 days after that we started dating.

    • Cool. Thanks for the success story

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What Girls Said 2

  • Online dating is simply home delivery sex when you feel too lazy to cook.

    Like... who waits (rhetorical)

  • I voted d. at least a month or more and after u have meet each other. To me it really depends on the chemistry and how comfortable u guys are with each other :)


What Guys Said 1

  • Exchange a few messages to the point where you know enough about her without going into small talk. Once you sense to conversation getting into small talk, just ask her out.