I actually met my last bf online & we lasted for 2 years so I wanted to try it again. It was a total nightmare this time. It's not that I didn't get dates from it.. I actually met about 5-6 different people over the course of 4 months. It's just that each guy made me feel worse than the last. One guy lied about his age by about 10 years, another said he didn't like me enough to be exclusive but wanted an "open relationship" (then got mad when I said no), another vanished into thin air after 4 good dates, and the last straw was when a guy made really insulting comments to me on the 1st date (to the point I wanted to cry).
I deleted my profile (s) yesterday & don't ever wanna go back.. I'm almost 26 and I don't think I'll find the right guy & get married (lots of my friends are engaged already). I actually feel depressed over this.. I just stay home and sleep a lot, and I haven't had much appetite lately. Any tips on how to feel better? Thanks
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Sounds as if you were depressed before online dating and as you noticed your friends getting engaged before it started to show on the outside and subsequently started to attract trash to you. You don't sound like a woman that's not relationship material, you just seem to have too many rigid rules surrounding time lines for intimacy. I would change your focus, depression is both what you do with your body and mind, they go together. Focus on what makes you happy and you will see a difference and suddenly quality guys will find you, it's not magic it's attraction. You're still young and still worthy of love and marriage, who knows you may even meet your next beau tomorrow. Pick your head up, shoulders back, open body language and remember what ecstasy feels like and smile, think about it and make it stronger until you feel it through out your body and focus only on the feeling of ecstasy and you'll see a difference, flip your hair and think I like me and you like me too, it works.. Hope this helps. :)0