He's really into paintball, and it honestly just scares the crap out of me. He REALLY wants me to go playing with his friends, but I really don't want to! I bruise like a freaking banana and I've seen the bruises and welts left on him after he plays. I'm a TERRIBLE shot and it will actually just be really embarrassing. I don't wanna get hurt, and I don't wanna shoot other people. I'm a pacifist and this just sounds like an incredibly bad time.
Do I have to suck it up and go? Or is there a nice way I can get out of this? I don't make him go to my college's fashion shows or do any of my other non-boyfriend-friendly hobbies. :( Help!
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Don't worry about it too much, I used to go climbing and my girlfriend at the time didn't want to do it because she was scared of heights! I was a bit disappointed, mostly because I enjoyed it and I wanted to share it with her. Also, to me it was fun and I wanted her to have fun too. The fact that she wouldn't enjoy it as much as I did (in fact she'd have been terrified lol) meant I just looked for other stuff for us both to do, my feelings weren't hurt.0