i was seeing this white guy for a while and i'm an east African girl. He said that i should visit him more often and i told him i didn't wanted too, he said;you are such a lazy n** in a playful way (i live in a country where it is ok to say such things , like the n word) and i was instantly upset. I stopped talking to him but for him to make a remark like that... it suprised me. What do you think of it?
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Not to justify his remark, but you did tell him that you didn't want to visit him, which can be taken as I don't care enough about you to make the effort to want to see you unless you come to me.
Sounds pretty lazy to me.2