I love older man. but for some reason I don't always attracted the one guy I like so much...
why is that? what are they looking for that I fall short on?
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Its really no diffrence between a younger girl or a girl their age.
I am 37 .. currently dating a 26 year old...
She is ambitious, energetic, kind, speaks her mind, has boundaries and communicates them ( mportant for younger women in order to not be taken advantage of )
The secret is to understand that men will take you as you present yourself
If you are serious girl.. you will force them to be serious with you
If you let them act like your overlord.. they will use you
Treat an older man like he is your age... this iwll give you two benefits... you will be more comfortable in communicating your boundaries to him and it will mak ehim feel young.. because you treat him no differently than you would a guy your age.
From your side.. be a serious girl... talk about serious stuff.. literature, economy, spirituality... the more you talk about this stuff and be knowledgable about them.. the more they will see you as a mature girl whom they can connect to.
Hope this helped :) wish you love and happiness.2