So my boyfriend and I have gone through a lot. We've been dating for a little over two years and we've both fucked up in our own ways equally but I'm all about not giving up. I try really hard to be the best girlfriend and he doesn't see it. What do I do? (I'm not going to leave him) I have a rocky past but I've never cheated. I just want to have a better relationship with him.
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You both have been together in this long term relation for 'Over two years' and hopefully counting, Kutschh. And of course, No relationship is smooth sailing, there are going to be rough patches and a War of the Roses from time to time. However, both of you I am assuming are Under 18, so young love can be even harder because as you get older, each of you can tend to 'Grow' in an another direction, and if you don't learn to get on the same page, compromise or come to some agreement Now, it Could very well go down a beaten path eventually, where Each of you ends Going----Their separate ways.
You may be trying and trying here, dear, and no matter how Hard you Try with this guy, nothing will ever be good enough because you have become this Enabler for him to Yearn and burn for him to see how good you can be, seeing that "I have a rocky past but I've never cheated." However, 'He doesn't see it' and maybe he never will... and sometimes the older he gets, the worse he could get.
Open lines of communication are one of the most important factors in any relationship, sweetie. Without this, Any new or old relationship is dead in the water. You both need to sit down and work as team mates, not just call yourselves these 'Soul mates' because you have been this couple for a Month of Mondays.
Being two birds of a feather will not make you stick together if there is always Fricking up and not enough Making up to Do Better so that your relationship can be A-----Better relationship with him.
Good luck. xx1