I start university in about 2 and a half months and I am hoping it will be a fresh start with girls. Girls at my high school weren't really into relationships and I didn't have much in common with many of them. Now that I am going to a very good university, hopefully I can meet some more like minded people.
This year was my senior year of high school and it was very important that I did well, so I put on a little weight. But I am starting to get back to doing sport as well as getting back into a diet and exercise routine, so that should be taken care of by the time I start Uni.
What else could I do to become more desirable? What exactly do you find desirable in men? Their intelligence, aloofness? It's hard to get honest answers.
I very much appreciate your answers and especially specificity. Thanks.
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You can't manipulate your way into attracting the, trust me girls can smell a manipulator a mile away and you will fail. You need to develop authenticity and integrity of character. These are the most attractive things in a man. Forget everything else, it won't work. And when you approach her don't memorize fucking pickup lines, just compliment her authentically. Suppose she's wearing a lovely dress or you like her hair just tell her that. Girls love talking about themselves so be interested in her, ask her questions about her life, goals, likes etc... Also, genuinely smile so that she feels comfortable. Leave her better than you found her. Be a positive addition to her life. And last but not least, declare your interest and sexuality truthfully. DO NOT try and manipulate your way in life, especially with girls they are very intuitive. This is the #1 attraction killer and proves that you are not the right male. Also, giver her space and don't be desperate. There are millions of girls out there don't be a fool.
Set your boundaries and make them clear. Do not tolerate shit. Good luck!0