Hi, I'm just curious is there's really no ones who liked a fat girl?
I'm fat, some people keeps telling me that I'm pretty.
But every time I met a new guy, they don't want to know me better, they don't want to be close to me. They'll always go to my friend, asking her number and so many else. She's more skinny and taller than me, (I don't mean to talk something like this behind her) but she get close to guys just because of their money.
Well, sometimes there's a guy who want to be close to me, but it's just because he want to know my friend better.
There's actually people that told me that I'm better than my friend, they told me I'm smarter, more pretty, etc. But I'm FAT, that's why some guys prefer my friend than me. (They said)
Honestly, I'm jealous..
Because sometimes, there's a guy I really like to be with, but he's getting close to me just because he likes my friend. And my friend tell me that she's not into this guy, and she knows that I like him. But she keeps texting him, ask him to hangout, etc.
So really guys, do you prefer skinny girl? Do you look at someone just by their appearance?
Sorry for my bad English , am foreign.
Most Helpful Girl
Everyone wants someone they're attracted to. Unfortunately, being overweight/obese is not appealing to most men and women.
Ask yourself, are these guys you like also fat? Or are they fit/healthy? Are you attracted to fat men? If not, then you can see why thin or healthy guys wouldn't be attracted to fat girls.
Humans are hardwired to find health attractive. It's why some people aren't attracted to people with acne, or even scarring. It's why some people aren't attracted to obesity.
This doesn't mean that fat people will never find love. There are chubby chasers. But not many would find them attractive.
And it's not just guys, most people prefer fit, slim, and/or healthy people. They don't just look at their appearance. Most people care if the girl/guy is attractive (by their standards) and are nice and genuine. Only few morons (men and women) would date someone based solely on their appearance.3
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