I just recently broke up with a guy a few days ago and I want to ask him if he was sleeping with other women while he was with me. I don't want him to think that I'm saying stuff just t talk to him. I want to know if I should get myself checked out or not since we didn't always use condoms (stupid I know).
I plan to say in a text, because I don't want to look at this asshole anymore, "Hey. I don't really want to talk about any of this anymore but I have to because we weren't as safe as we should have been. Were you sleeping with other women while you were with me?"
Is that a good way to bring it up?
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I believe, sweetie, if you had any kind of STD, you would be getting some sort of symptoms like vaginal odor, burning when urinating, things of this nature.
You could of course ask the source with the horse in Question if you Feel he was this stud muffin who was horsing around, but since you just split like a banana, he may not be 'Feeling' like two peas in a pod with you and may find This Offensive and just put you on a back burner... you won't get anywhere like that with too many chefs in the kitchen sort of sore raw deal.
Set up an appointment with your doctor and get the nine years done for your own peace of mind. This way you can start out fresh as a daisy, do not have to involve the possible grumpy gorilla and it can be like this closure to close this chapter of your life that may not have ended in a happy ending 'A few days ago'... nor in the future with this fine feather friend who may or may not know anything...
And if the tests would happen to come up Not such a barrel of monkeys in which you ended up standing there with egg on your face, you could either let him have it with it or seconds guess who the joke ended up on and let sleeping dogs lie.
Good luck. xx0