Is it because he doesn't like my personality but he's attracted to me on a physical level? Or, he isn't attracted to me in anyways but it's convenient?
What makes a guy decide who's good for friends with benefits and who isn't?
Most Helpful Girl
You are offering him an easy option he doesn't need to care what you think because its convenient for him and you. Because you have not gave him any requirements or set standards for yourself he hasn't had to bother considering this. And you doing this has resulted in friends with benefits heprobably doesn't respect you like he would his gf. If he is only after friends with benefits then doesn't matter what standards or requirements you set because if sex all he wants he will move on but if you with hold sex set standards and requirements that tells him you want more and he sticks around then you know that he isn't just wanting sex if that makes sense1