I lived a very isolated life because of abuse and sickness in my teen years. Im 22 now and my social life doesn't exist, where i live, the town is pretty much dead, i have a very hard time relating to people and its like im almost scared of them. Recently this guy dumped me because i wasn't worthy of being his girlfriend. He told me that. Am i that ugly? Guys Always choose to hit on girls that are the opposite of me.
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Sorry to hear. Any person who says that is a prize dick. I am seeing a psychologist because I have something called a "Defective Lifetrap" Its a bunch of toxic thinking patterns that is born from your childhood socialization. Mine is a sense of worthlessness and it effects many "Nice Guys'. So I know where you are coming from. My psychologist and I are just working on the notion that one must never place their self worth on what another person says about you. You choose your self worth. Maybe all you need is some social skills (like move to the city or something) but you are not less worthy than the most famous of actors.0