I was at a speech and debate tournament this Thursday-Saturday, and I ended up really befriending some debate people that went to the college where it was held. There was this really attractive guy that the friends I just met kept I guess hitting on, he was a friend of their's. I thought he was attractive, and at one point we had a pretty good discussion about our religious beliefs, him being agnostic, myself being atheist. All around he seemed like a pretty cool guy. Personally, I hate those "what if" thoughts so I decided to just ask him for his number before leaving, he was fairly eager to give it. I did this in front of kind of a group of girls and they were all pretty shocked. Me being as confident as I am, didn't think much of it, when I want something, I try to get it, life's too short to have wasted chances. i just really don't get why the girls made such a big deal over me just asking for his number honestly, thought this kinda thing was the "norm" now.
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i don't get it either, i make the first move all the time. i wouldn't be with my current boyfriend if i hadn't been bold enough to flirt with him and show interest. i make plans for us all the time, i text him first, i asked if we were a couple or not. and my roommates are all like "no way am i texting him first, he has to text me!" "why hasn't he asked me out yet?" "why doesn't he know he should come to the party we're having? i'm not inviting him!" it makes absolutely zero sense to me!2