Met a new guy friend the other night. He says that he is just looking for friendship.
My friend and I end up crashing at his place. I had a bit of an emotional outburst after drinking some wine. He and my friend called me down lol.
After chatting he ends up sleeping in the bed next to me. Luckily I don't mind at all. Found myself quite attracted to him. Would not of minded making a move. He snuggled right into me most the night.
It felt so nice getting cuddles cause I have not had that in ages with someone.
The reason I did not make a move was cause he said he just wanted friendship and did not want to ruin that. Plus my friend was sleeping in the same room to. She was on the couch. He and I were on a mattress.
Not sure if he snuggling into me was a move in itself or just a form of comfort from a friend.
What are your thoughts guys?
He mentioned wanting friendship to all us girls, not just me.
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It could be both. He might not mind just being friends or if something else happened. Saying he just wants to be friends is the safe thing to say, that way he can just be friends if that's all you're interested in or something more could happen and he can just roll with it. There is really no need for him to want something specific he can just go with the flow and not care what happens, I think that's a pretty common attitude to have.2