I get rejected so much it's gotten to a point that I get depressed when I start having feelings for a girl, because I know I'll be turned down, so, how do I stop liking them altogether? Also, please don't say turn gay, that's technically impossible.
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The real question is why are you getting turned down? You have said in your description you are an introverted loaner. Perhaps that has something to do with it. Now to be clear, i am not saying there is anything wrong with who you are and that you are introverted and tend to be a loaner. I can be that way at times. a lot of people can be that way. That said, perhaps because of this girls aren't seeing you for who you are. If you are quiet and tend to shy away from others, then perhaps you aren't giving them a chance to see how you think and feel and what you have to offer. All they see is "empty" even though that isn't true. And if all they see is "empty" why do they want to pursue that? So if this is true, perhaps you need to find a way to let girls get to know you a bit more before you ask them out.
I know i am making some big assumptions here, so please forgive me if I am wrong. I am mainly trying to give you some things to think about that might help.0
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