I have a girl I've been seeing/dating - the sex is great, we connect pretty well, overall it feels good. However, I find myself often finding excuses not to spend time with her. To me, I would rather sit in my room with a guitar/piano and write music and make art than sit around and have drinks with her, or hang with her and her friends. Maybe it's just because I'm introverted, or maybe it's because she's not the right girl? But I've noticed this as a trend in my relationships. I also find myself still "looking" for other girls, keeping my eyes open for "the one".
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I don't know. Maybe you just like spending time alone more, that's how I am too. I usually find myself making excuses instead of going out. I don't really see anything wrong with it. Do whatever you think is right but don't try to hurt any feelings in the process.0