Okay I've been dating my gf for 2 months and its been great but one issue which has come up recently is the fact that she doesn't speak to me as much any more like she will go 2-3 days without speaking or replying to my texts and inboxes on fb and when she does she claims she is always busy but when I call her and she answers she is with her mate but she never asks to come see her or meet up and when I suggest it she says she can't what do I do
Help with relationship I need advice?
What Girls Said 6
A person can have a busy life and be in a relationship, but they shouldn't be completely silent for 2-3 days. The best advice I can give is to talk to her in person expressing your concern about why she's being distant. That way you can get a feel for her response if her words are empty and so you read her body language. Actions speak louder than words.0
Just be open and tell her straight up about how you feel, because obviously she's avoiding you meaning she's most likely lost interest or something's up because no teenager is ever that busy to go on 2-3 days without getting on their phones like come on that's bullshit, and if she is actually that busy then why be in a relationship if she's not going to have time for you 😔0
Maybe she just needs some space, but if talking to her everyday is important to you then tell her. She might not realize that it's upsetting you, so just talk to her about it to see where the relationship stands.0
I don't think she's into you anymore. Girls will always find time for the guys she's interested in.0
What Guys Said 5
I'm assuming she is under 18 like yourself... since when are teenage girls not on their phones? She is saying she is "busy"? Bullshit man. If she really does have a busy life then she should at least text you at night saying goodnight or at least saying hi before she goes on with her "busy" life. Iv'e been in the same position as you are now a year or two ago with an ex, she ended up cheating on me. Found out every time she had been "busy" she's been hanging with a different guy.
Now, i'm not saying that your girlfriend is cheating on you... what im trying to say is continue with extreme caution in your relationship. Sit her down, talk to her face to face, find out why she isn't contacting you for 2-3 days at a time. Knowing how teens are... especially girl... they always check their phones even at work or wherever they are. They always have time to send a quick text or two or anyone.
Wish you luck man0
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If i were you i would leave man..0
Sounds like you blew it at some point, move on with your life little man.0
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