I'm talking about both being both physically and emotionally attracted to the person.
Body type, height, intelligence, confidence, pride, masculinity, trustworthy, cheerful, optomistic, forgiving, genuine, good listener etc.
Has to be smart (big turn on for me)
Loyal, reliable and understanding
Height: anywhere from 2-3 inches shorter to a foot taller, though I would prefer taller
Skinny, chubby or muscular. Overweight is a turn off.
An average to nice face.
Ambitious and preferably successful
Loving and caring
Respectable (dresses well, well mannered, etc.)
Clean, good hygiene
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Obivously loyal and honest and caring and all that, but he needs to have smarts. I don't want to feel like I'm smarter than him, let's just put it that way. Ambitious/goal oriented. Adventurous. Dry sense of humor. Able to converse intelligently and have an intelligent conversation. Doesn't have an accent so thick that you can barely understand him. When he speaks, he SOUNDS smart. He doesn't have to sound like an arrogant yuppy but I don't want him to sound like just stepped out of the back woods. Taller than me, at least 5'8. Neither needy nor distant. Works out, has some kind of physique going on. Good posture. Has good manners, is a gentleman, chivalrous, respecful, the whole shebang. Good hygiene. Has decent teeth. No copious amounts of yellowness or insane crookedness, that's just a turnoff. Able to be a family man when the time comes. He also cannot have any sort of emotional baggage that would interfere with the relationship, or extensive/constant family problems. I don't want to put up with that shit.0