I'm a pretty competitive guy, mostly with my self. I don't compete with other men because I truly believe your greatest challenge is yourself.
I am dating , or was? Don't know which very to pick. Anywho, I'm dating this woman and we known each other for years but lately we have been getting heavily flirty and all touchy with each other. We like watch other and got out t of bad relationships. I don't mind if she dates other people but I don't want to know or see it. I saw her today with another guy, and it made my heart dropped. I spoke to her and him and was very smooth about it, she asked me what I thought about him and wanted me to sit with them.
Personally, I don't want to talk to her anymore. Not that I'm jealous, I just don't feel I'm special in her eyes anymore. I don't want to know and move on. We text and talk everyday and I feel it is super awkward and I want to move on.
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In the dating stage people can multi-date and you just have to accept it which is why you should never place all of your eggs into one basket.
Also if the girl is asking you to sit with a guy she's out with then she may not have been on a date with him or if she was then she may see you as a friend. Though her asking for your opinion on the guy makes me believe you're in the friend zone.
If I was you, I'd distance myself from her. Stop the texting, keep things cordial and move on.0