Okay let's say there's this girl and she suffers with depression and anxiety ( not diagnosed by a doctor) to the point where she cries herself to sleep most nights and has suicidal thoughts but know one knows this as she keeps it to herself.
If you were dating this girl and she felt she 110% trusted you to tell you how she felt and what's going through her head but asked you not to tell anyone what would you do would you still tell someone or will you respect her wishes?
Also how would you react? Would you end things with this girl?
Just curious to see what you guys would do or girls what would you do if it was a guy
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I would try everything possible to make her happy and smile again. I will tell her that she's amazing everyday, that I love her etc... and to stop being depressive, youve got me etc... Advice her to maybe talk to a therapist or consult a professional if my help is not even enough, BUT if she still dont want to improve and help herself, I would break up with her. there's no point in staying with a girl that is constantly depressive, and dont want to do a single thing to improve it no matter what I do.
Staying with someone depressive will only make you more depressive yourself, but if I love her, I will certainly try everything to keep her. But in the end, she's the one to make the decision1