I feel that I have bad luck with women because I only try to get at the ones I find at least moderately attractive in looks. It turns out of most of them have boyfriends, lie about having one, or are just uninterested. It's sad that my hormones are getting in the way of finding a woman that isn't very physically attractive, but have a great personality. Most importantly, I miss my opportunities at women who actually smile at me and say hi to me! Instead I go for the ones that seem to feel whatever about me.
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I don't think it's fair to the girl to do that :(
That's actually, really, really hurtful. In fact, most girls are self conscious as is. And if she's physically unattractive, her self esteem will most likely plummet :(
We know we shouldn't place so much value on looks, but women get judged harshly on it. So do men. So to have a partner and to find out they don't find you physically or sexually attractive, that'll just be a self esteem killer right there. We want to be desired by our partners, fully. Not just looks, not just personality, but we want you men to desire us completely.
There are plenty of women who have good personality and good looks.1
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