When we first started dating we would text often and then it turned into daily phone calls... then it became every other day calls and the occasional text. Now it is twice a week phone calls, maybe three and rare texting. I see him about once every week depending on our schedules.
When we are together it is great! I am just nervous this is a RED FLAG. Even if I send a Good Morning text, he doesn't respond but usually will call me later that day.
Red Flag or no?
- Red FlagVote A
- Not a Red FlagVote B
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My girlfriend & I. just had. this conversation last week. She. was worried as much as you. I certainly can't speak. for your boyfriend, but in my case I work ALL THE TIME. My work is important to me. And my time is divided appropriately. In the beginning of our relationship, I rearranged a couple of priorities so that I could spend more of my time with her. But, eventually, the tasks I put off required my attention. So the communication & time together wasn't as much, but was certainly not because my feelings for her changed.
Despite my admitted social awkwardness, I value her above nearly all others. And it's never my intention to lead her to believe I would ignore her, or that I don't care. I do, very much. It bothered me she would think I didn't want her around as much. We found a way to get through. Now, with a lot of the excitement passed, we see each other everyday. She's happy, & so am I.
Talk to him. There's a good chance he doesn't know this is how you feel.2