It's the age old question of how much does attraction really play in a relationship, and I'll be honest, I'm probably looking for reassurance in my decision. But, aren't we all if we're using this site?
Anyways, I have this wonderful friend who I friendzoned and like the majority of guys stuck there, he wants out. I'm not going to say I made the right decision or I wasn't selfish in making it, but I said yes to trying things out with him and giving him a helping hand out of the friendzone because it is very hard to see a life without him at this point. I also know that our friendship will never be the same no matter what my answer is. The only problem is... I'm not attracted to him physically.
I am well aware how shallow I am and if I could make it go away that would be one of my three wishes from my genie, but I can't. However, this guy is perfect in every other way. If he was a little more my type physically, I could see myself marrying him.
So I guess what I'm asking, is did I make the right choice in giving him a chance? I'm not in love with him and he's said many times he is in love with me. I really just don't want to hurt him.
Thanks for at least reading this long monstrosity. Thank you even more if you choose to help me out a bit here.
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Whether it's right for you is for you to decide. I personally don't see myself in a romantic relationship with a girl I'm not attracted to. There are many people that will be in relationships without physical attraction. They become more attracted over time with the connection.0
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