In my experience of trying to find that special someone, i've met with complete failure and i've spent countless hours trying to find any girl really. Every single time i've met with failure and rejection pretty much, so now i've become love shy when i used to be confident and charming. I'm now afraid to ask out women because i dislike the constant pain, and they end up telling their friends and i'm humiliated.
For a while now i've given up and replaced trying to get a girl with a drug addiction. Opiates are nice because they completely stop my libido and make me forget about girls and the endless emotional pain of trying to get them. But this drug addiction is just a band aid fix. Can i find a more permanent solution to forget about girls and move on to more important things in my life? I thought i was good enough to get a girl before, but clearly something is wrong with my personality and appearance. All hope is lost trying to find a girl; even if a girl were to show interest id be too afraid to go after her.
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I'd argue that love is the prevailing reason that we seek out partners. I actually believe that it lays at the heart of everything we do, but that's probably an opinion better saved for a different question.
Getting back to the question at hand, a lot of people think that romance is an evolutionary construct, one which exists because it fuels reproduction. Personally, I disagree. If it was as simple as genetic propagation, then people would just run around impregnating as many people as humanly possible, and that'd be that.0
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