sometimes I feel he's really controlling, he tells me not to wear tight shirts and gives me times to be home from my friends houses etc.
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If you have to make a thread about him he already is1
Whether he is or not is something he's doing, not something you're feeling. How does he say these things? What does he do to get his way? Are these things normal? What happens when you try to discuss your feelings? Is that normal? These are the questions you need to ask yourself. Ignore the female opinions here. They find abuse in every scenario no matter what.
Considering you are under 18 im going to go with he's just a guy thats worried about losing you. If it ever escalates to the point of he starts showing up where you are at or even becomes remotely violent dump his ass. Personally i would right now because he's obviously not mature enough yet.
What does controlling mean to you? Since you have to ask if he is.
that's super controlling. he's telling you what you're allowed to wear and where you are allowed to be at what time. if that isn't controlling, i don't know what is. that's not acceptable.
Those are examples of being controlled. Not even in marriage should a husband be like that. Talk to family members and get out of the relationship before it escalates.
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